December, 2002

There will not be a regular calendar mailing for December. Back on schedule in January.

FAIR FAMILY FUN – YOU ARE INVITED!

FAIR HOLIDAY PARTY

SUNDAY, DECEMBER 8, 2:00-4:30

Los Altos Youth Center
1 North San Antonio Rd. Los Altos

Especially for families with elementary children and younger. 
Older kids will enjoy helping. 
Waiting families are welcome.

What to Bring:

A wrapped inexpensive gift for each of your children (marked with first & last name & age. These will go into the appropriate “Santa’s bag” when you arrive, to be distributed later!

A plate of cookies or simple finger foods to share.

When:

Party is from 2-4:30. Crafts, games from 2:00 on. Santa will arrive at * 3:00. Please be inside before he comes!

Helpers:

Adults and Teen/older child helpers. We really need you! Please arrive by 1:00 to help set up and receive directions. See RSVP information below.

Directions:

280 to El Monte exit - El Monte EAST to Foothill Expwy. - Foothill Expwy NORTH to San Antonio Rd. - San Antonio Rd. EAST to entrance (entrance is on right side of street a couple blocks EAST of Foothill Espy. (entrance = Youth Center/Police Dept.)

From 101, take San Antonio Rd exit and follow WEST to entrance on your left.

YOUR RSVP HELPS US PLAN! Call Hannah 650-917-1505 or lka@sbcglobal.net  to let us know how many people are coming, their ages, and if you could help at the party. Teens are especially wanted and needed to help.

Please RSVP to confirm dates of all meetings and to get directions.

Mon. Dec. 2. 7:30-9:30pm. Coastside FAIR. Half Moon Bay Area support group. RSVP by the previous Friday if coming!

Mon. Dec. 9. 7-9pm. Parents of Young Children Support and Networking Group. Mountain View. This group is just for adoptive parents of infants and young children. Pre-adopt parents may also find this group helpful. Thanks to BAAS for the meeting space! 465 Fairchild Dr. Ste 215. RSVP Lansing. lansing@fairfamilies.org 

Tues. Dec. (every other) 7:30pm. Parent Support Group. San Jose area. RSVP Louise louise@rainbow-family.org  or Kathy kametz@attbi.com  to confirm meeting date and place.

Wed. Dec. 18. 7:00pm. East Bay FAIR Adoptive Parents Group Oakland. Please confirm date. Contact Susan sjhoffmann@hotmail.com  to RSVP and for more information.


November, 2002

National Adoption Awareness Month

FAIR HOLIDAY PARTY: 
Save SUNDAY, DECEMBER 8, 2:00-4:30

* Please check next month’s calendar for exact time and details *
Los Altos Youth Center
1 North San Antonio Rd. Los Altos

Especially for families with elementary children and younger. Older kids will enjoy helping. Waiting families are welcome.

What to Bring:

A wrapped inexpensive gift for each of your children (marked with first & last name & age. These will go into the appropriate "Santa’s bag" when you arrive, to be distributed later!

A plate of cookies or simple finger foods to share.

When:

Party is from * 2-4:30. Crafts, games from 2:00 on. Santa will arrive at * 3:00. Please be inside before he comes!

Helpers:

Adults and Teen/older child helpers. We really need you! Please arrive by 1:30 to help set up and receive directions. See RSVP information below.

Directions:

280 to El Monte exit - El Monte EAST to Foothill Expwy. - Foothill Expwy NORTH to San Antonio Rd. - San Antonio Rd. EAST to entrance (entrance is on right side of street a couple blocks EAST of Foothill Espy. (entrance = Youth Center/Police Dept.)

From 101, take San Antonio Rd exit and follow WEST to entrance on your left.

YOUR RSVP HELPS US PLAN! Contact Hannah or ika@sbcglobal.net  to let us know how many people are coming, their ages, and if you could help at the party. Teens are especially wanted and needed to help.

Please RSVP to confirm dates of all meetings and to get directions.

Mon. Nov 4. 7:30-9:30pm. Coastside FAIR. Half Moon Bay Area support group. RSVP by the previous Friday if coming!

Tues. Nov. 5, 12, and 19. 6:30-8:00 pm. Last three meetings of the "Understand Our Stories" group. This six session group for children and their parents is not currently open to new members but another group will be offered in the future. Contact Nancy Ng nancycng@yahoo.com  or 650-856-MICK.

Mon. Nov. 11. 7-9pm. Parents of Young Children Support and Networking Group. Mountain View. This group is just for adoptive parents of infants and young children. Pre-adopt parents may also find this group helpful. Thanks to BAAS for the meeting space! 465 Fairchild Dr. Ste 215. RSVP Lansing. lansing@fairfamilies.org 

Tues. Nov. 19. 7:30pm. Parent Support Group. San Jose area. RSVP Louise louise@rainbow-family.org  or Kathy kmetz@attbi.com  to confirm meeting date and place.

Wed. Nov. 20. 7:00pm. East Bay FAIR Adoptive Parents Group Oakland. Please confirm date. Call Susan sjhoffmann@hotmail.com  to RSVP.

Thurs. Nov. 21. 6:30-8:30. Belmont Adoption Education Group. Presented by FAIR for San Mateo County. Topic: Adoption and Celebrations. All FAIR parents welcome. Dinner and child care with RSVP to Eva Lanphere. 650-595-7631. Questions? Nancy 650-865MICK. 400 Harbor Blvd. Bldg. B.


FYI: As space allows we are pleased to include information about opportunities sponsored by other organizations.

New Guatemalan Group

There is a new group hosting monthly events for families with children from Guatemala. The events are scheduled from the Redwood City to San Jose areas. Please contact Julie Nicholson atjuliemn@earthlink.net You can also contact bayareaguatadopt@yahoogroups.com 

Nov. 4-5. National Open Adoption Conference. Lake Tahoe. Also Open Adoption Practitioner Certification on Nov. 6. For information, 925-827-2229. www.adoptionhelp.org 


September 2002

October: New Groups for Kids and Parents: FAIR is once again planning to host some parent/child parallel groups on the theme of “Understanding Our Stories.” Parents and kids meet at the same time but separately. These will most likely meet in Palo Alto or San Jose depending on participants on 4-6 week day evenings 6:30-8:30pm.

If you are interested, please call or email right away to let us know your child’s age and sex so that compatible groups can be formed. Contact Nancy at 650-856-MICK or nancycng@yahoo.com 

October: FAIR on ICE Party. Tentatively Sat. Oct. 19, 5:30-7:30pm in Palo Alto.

Please be sure to RSVP to confirm dates of all meetings

Don’t forget to order a copy of Adoption and the Schools: Resources for Parents and Teachers for you child’s school or teacher! Info on web site.

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Mon. Sept.2. 7:30-9:30pm. Coastside FAIR. Half Moon Bay Area support group. RSVP by the previous Friday if coming

Sun. Sept. 8. 1-3pm. Los Altos. “Adoption and School Issues.” FRUA parent ed meeting led by Lansing Wood and Nancy Ng, co-editors of Adoption and the Schools: Resources for Parents and Teachers.

Los Altos Library Program Room 13 S. San Antonio Road, Los Altos

Cost: Free to FRUA and FAIR members; $20 donation for non-members

RSVP: Angela Schmiede: schmiede@stanford.edu 

From 280, take the El Monte Rd East exit and merge onto El Monte Rd. Make a left onto Foothill Expressway and take the next right onto San Antonio Road. The library is located .5 mile down the road on the right by the Civic Center.

From 101, take the San Antonio Road South exit. Follow San Antonio Rd all the way into downtown Los Altos. The library will be on your left (near intersection of Edith) by the Civic Center.

Mon. Sept. 9. 7-9pm. Parents of Young Children Support and Networking Group. Mountain View. This group is just for adoptive parents of infants and young children. Pre-adopt parents may also find this group helpful. Thanks to BAAS for the meeting space! 465 Fairchild Dr. Ste 215. RSVP Lansing. lansing@fairfamilies.org 

Wed. Sept. 18. 7:00pm. East Bay FAIR Adoptive Parents Group Oakland. Please confirm date. Call Susan 510-530-6628 sjhoffmann@hotmail.com  to RSVP.

Thurs. Sept. 19. 6:30-8:30. Belmont Adoption Education Group. Presented by FAIR for San Mateo County. All FAIR parents welcome. Dinner and child care with RSVP to Eva Lanphere. 650-595-7623. “Back to School and Adoption,” Questions? Nancy 650-865MICK. 400 Harbor Blvd. Bldg. B.

Tues. Sept. 17. 7:30pm. Parent Support Group. San Jose area. RSVP Louise louise@rainbow-family.org  to confirm meeting date and place.

Wed. Sept. 25. 7:00pm. Parent Support Group. Palo Alto. For adoptive parents of older children, teens and up. Parents of young kids, see other dates. RSVP by Sept.24. Lansing lansing@fairfamilies.org  Also for pre-adoptive parents of older kids.

FYI: Upcoming Events and Info.

Please let us know if you would like a particular family or educational event to be planned by FAIR. As space allows we are pleased to include information about opportunities sponsored by other organizations as well as by FAIR.

Sat. Sept. 28. 9-5pm. Kitty Petty ADD/LD Institute Symposium. Reformatting Your “ Hard Drive” A Guide for ADD/LD Students (Middle School through College students) and Advocates. Cupertino. Call KPI (650)329-9443. www.kpinst.org

Fri. Oct. 4 – Sun. Oct. 6 Mosaic Family Camp. A Jewish Weekend For Multiracial And Multicultural Families. Register at www.tawonga.org . Call 415.543-2267 for more information. Parenting the Hurt Child

Fri. & Sat. Oct 11-12 9am-5pm Parenting the Hurt Child. Sacramento. Presenter: Dr. Gregory Keck, founder of the Attachment and Bonding Center of Ohio and co-author of Adopting the Hurt Child and Parenting the Hurt Child Highly recommended if doing this kind of parenting!

Registration fee: before 9-20-02 $100 after 9-20-02 $125 Sponsored by CATTE ,363 Caples Drive, Folsum, CA 95630 For info: call Kay Roper 916 989-1167.

Oct. 16-19, “Sharpening the Focus on Attachment” presented by the Association for Treatment & Training in the Attachment of Children. Costa Mesa, CA. Many national experts speaking. For more information contact the Attachment Center West at 714-751-7789.

Sat. Oct. 19. Palo Alto. 5:30-7:30pm Tentative date for FAIR on ICE. Family skating, plus barbecue/picnic. Check next month’s calendar for final date and details.

Nov. 4-5, National Open Adoption Conference. Lake Tahoe. Also Open Adoption Practitioner Certification on Nov. 6. For information, 925-827-2229. www.adoptionhelp.org 


August, 2002

FAIR FAMILY FUN – FAIR ANNUAL CAMPOUT

FRIDAY TO SUNDAY, AUGUST 16-18

Don’t miss FAIR’s Annual Campout at Del Valle Regional Park in Livermore. Meet new and old friends. FAIR has reserved and paid for 12 large campsites in one area, some of which can be shared by two families. There is a safe swimming lake in the park with lifeguards and shade where non-campers can join us for the day on Saturday. No reservations needed for day use, but please call so we can watch for you.

Arrive at the campsite in the afternoon on Friday and beat the traffic.

We are asking each camping family to pay $20 for two nights even if you can only come for one night. This simplifies our campsite assignments. First time campers welcome!

There are picnic tables, fire pits, water, flush toilets, and showers - plus beautiful starry nights, wild turkeys, and great company. Campers will share a simple potluck dinner on Saturday evening and there will be some other low-key activities to help people become better acquainted.

To reserve your space:

Send a check for $20, made out to FAIR to the FAIR address on this flier.

Contact Elsje (say Elsha) Gurko DEJAfamily@aol.com  to let her know how many people will be camping, kids’ ages, and when you plan to arrive. She will assign campsites so let her know if you would like to share or be close to another particular family. She will also send you a map, campground regulations and directions. Each site can accommodate up to 10 people. Please note that the second car at each site will be asked at the check-in station to pay $6.00. FAIR will refund that money if requested so that each family will pay the $20.

Spaces will be assigned on a first come, first served basis, so make your plans as soon as you can.

Please be sure to RSVP to confirm dates of all meetings. Some of our regular meetings are taking a break for the summer and will resume in September.

Mon. Aug. 5. 7:30-9:30pm. Coastside FAIR. Half Moon Bay Area support group. RSVP by the previous Friday if coming!

Mon. Aug. 12. 7-9pm. Parents of Young Children Support and Networking Group. Mountain View. This group is just for adoptive parents of infants and young children. Pre-adopt parents may also find this group helpful. Thanks to BAAS for the meeting space! 465 Fairchild Dr. Ste 215. RSVP Lansing. lansing@fairfamilies.org 

Wed. Aug. 21. 7:00pm. East Bay FAIR Adoptive Parents Group Oakland. Please confirm date. The group may be on a “summer recess.” Contact Susan sjhoffmann@hotmail.com  to RSVP.

Tues. Aug. 13. 7:30pm. Parent Support Group. San Jose area. RSVP Louise louise@rainbow-family.org  to confirm meeting date and place.

Wed. Aug. 28. 7:00pm. Parent Support Group. Palo Alto. For adoptive parents of older children, teens and up. Parents of young kids, see other dates. RSVP by July 23. Lansing lansing@fairfamilies.org  Also for pre-adoptive parents of older kids.

FYI: Upcoming Events and Info.

Fri-Sun. August 16-18.FAIR Annual Campout at Del Valle Regional Park in Livermore. Details above. FAIR has reserved camp sites.

Sat. Aug. 17. 1-4:30pm. Baby Care for Adopted Infants. Oakland. Sponsored by Pact. To register, call Pact, 510-243-9460.

Sat. Sept. 28. 9-5pm. Kitty Petty ADD/KD Institute Symposium. Reformatting Your “ Hard Drive” A Guide for ADD/LD Students (Middle School through College students) and Advocates. Cupertino. Call KPI (650-329-9443). www.kpinst.org 

October: FAIR is once again planning to host some parent/child parallel groups, one for 8-10 yrs and one for Middle School Aged girls. Watch for more information. These will most likely be in Palo Alto on Tues. or Wed. 6-8pm for 6 weeks.

Oct. 16-19, “Sharpening the Focus on Attachment” presented by the Association for Treatment & Training in the Attachment of Children. Costa Mesa, CA. Many national experts speaking. For more information and a brochure contact the Attachment Center West at 714-751-7789.

Nov. 4-5, National Open Adoption Conference. Lake Tahoe. Also Open Adoption Practitioner Certification on Nov. 6. For information, 925-827-2229. www.adoptionhelp.org 


 

July, 2002

Mon. July 1. 7:30-9:30pm. Coastside FAIR. Half Moon Bay Area support group. RSVP by the previous Friday if coming!

Mon. July 15. 7-9pm. Parents of Young Children Support and Networking Group. Mountain View. This group is just for adoptive parents of infants and young children. Pre-adopt parents may also find this group helpful. Thanks to BAAS for the meeting space! 465 Fairchild Dr. Ste 215. RSVP Lansing. lansing@fairfamilies.org  PLEASE NOTE CHANGE TO THIRD MONDAY THIS MONTH.

Wed. July 17. 7:00pm. East Bay FAIR Adoptive Parents Group Oakland. Please confirm date. The group may be on a “summer recess.” Call Susan 510-530-6628 sjhoffmann@hotmail.com  to RSVP.

Tues. July 16. 7:30pm. Parent Support Group. San Jose area. RSVP louise@rainbow-family.org  to confirm meeting date and place.

Wed. July 24. 7:00pm. Parent Support Group. Palo Alto. For adoptive parents of older children, teens and up. Parents of young kids, see other dates. RSVP by July 23. Lansing at lansing@fairfamilies.org  Also for pre-adoptive parents of older kids.

FYI: Upcoming Events and Info.

July 10-14. Pact’s Transracial Adoption Summit & Family Camp. For more information contact Pact at 510-243-9460 or www.pactadopt.org 

Your help is needed: Pact, An Adoption Alliance, has asked us to invite families to participate in a Federally Funded Study called Project Building Understanding designed to examine the experiences and challenges of transracial and inracial adoptive families of all races. Families will be sent a questionnaire. They must have adopted a child placed before age 5 who is now older than 3 and less than 19. US and International adoptions, same race and transracial adoptive families are all welcome to participate. Please contact Pact at 800-750-7590.

August 1-4. North American Council on Adoptable Children Annual Training conference in Chicago. Visit www.nacac.org  for information or call 651-644-3036.

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June 2002

FAIR FAMILY FUN – FAIR ANNUAL CAMPOUT

FRIDAY TO SUNDAY, AUGUST 16-18

Don’t miss FAIR’s Annual Campout at Del Valle Regional Park in Livermore. Meet new and old friends. FAIR has reserved and paid for 12 large campsites in one area, some of which can be shared by two families. There is a safe swimming lake in the park with lifeguards and shade where non-campers can join us for the day on Saturday. No reservations needed for day use, but please call so we can watch for you.

Arrive at the campsite in the afternoon on Friday and beat the traffic.

We are asking each camping family to pay $20 for two nights even if you can only come for one night. This simplifies our campsite assignments. First time campers welcome!

There are picnic tables, fire pits, water, flush toilets, and showers - plus beautiful starry nights, wild turkeys, and great company. Campers will share a simple potluck dinner on Saturday evening and there will be some other low-key activities to help people become better acquainted.

To reserve your space:

  1. Send a check for $20, made out to FAIR to the FAIR address on this flier.
  2. Contact Elsje (say Elsha) Gurko DEJAfamily@aol.com to let her know how many people will be camping, kids’ ages, and when you plan to arrive. She will assign campsites so let her know if you would like to share or be close to another particular family. She will also send you a map, campground regulations and directions. Each site can accommodate up to 10 people. Please note that the second car at each site will be asked at the check-in station to pay $6.00. FAIR will refund that money if requested so that each family will pay the $20.
  3. Spaces will be assigned on a first come, first served basis, so make your plans as soon as you can.

Sun. June 2. 2-5pm. Informal Meeting to work on Lifebooks. Contact Wilma wilmachu@aol.com to RSVP. Place: BAAS meeting room, 465 Fairchild Dr. Ste. 215. Mountain View.

Mon. June 3. 7:30-9:30pm. Coastside FAIR. Half Moon Bay Area support group. RSVP by the previous Friday if coming!

Mon. June 10. 7-9pm. Parents of Young Children Support and Networking Group. Mountain View. This group is just for adoptive parents of infants and young children. Pre-adopt parents may also find this group helpful. Thanks to BAAS for the meeting space! 465 Fairchild Dr. Ste 215. RSVP Lansing. lansing@fairfamilies.org

Wed. June 19. 7:00pm. East Bay FAIR Adoptive Parents Group Oakland. Please confirm date. Call Susan sjhoffmann@.hotmail.com for directions and to RSVP.

Thurs. June 20. 6:30-8:30. Belmont Adoption Education Group. Presented by FAIR for San Mateo County. Topic: My Child’s Behavior: What’s Adoption, What’s Not? All FAIR parents welcome. Dinner and child care with RSVP to Eva Lanphere. 650-595-7623. Program starts at 7:00. 400 Harbor Blvd. Bldg. B., Belmont. Questions? Call Nancy 650-856-MICK or nancycng@yahoo.com

Tues. June 18. 7:30pm. Parent Support Group. San Jose area. RSVP louise@rainbow-family.org to confirm meeting date and place.

Mon. June 17. 7-9pm. Parents of Elementary Aged Kids (7-10/11) Support and Networking Group. Join others to share ages, stages, challenges, and parenting tips. BAAS office: 465 Fairchild Dr. Ste 215, Mountain View. Lansing lansing@fairfamilies.org

Wed. June 26. 7:00pm. Parent Support Group. Palo Alto. For adoptive parents of older children, teens and up. Parents of young kids, see other dates. Before coming RSVP Lansing lansing@fairfamilies.org Also for pre-adoptive parents of older kids.

 

FYI: Upcoming Events Save the dates!

August 1-4. North American Council on Adoptable Children annual training conference in Chicago. Visit www.nacac.org for information or call 651-644-3036.

Fri-Sun. August 16-18.FAIR Annual Campout at Del Valle Regional Park in Livermore. Details above. FAIR has reserved camp sites.


May, 2002

Help needed: See May 24 Below.

If you would like to have a FAIR event near you, please let us know your idea. We can announce it in the calendar and help with expenses of rental space, snacks, etc.

The preschooler’s potluck in April came together this way and the May 5 Park Day is another example. It’s up to you to help FAIR meet the needs of our members! Contact Lansing or any Board Member.

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Sun. May 5. 2-5pm. Informal Meeting to work on Lifebooks. Contact Wilma wilmachu@aol.com to RSVP. Place: BAAS meeting room, 465 Fairchild Dr. Ste. 215. Mountain View.

Sun. May 5. 1:30-4pm. Park Play Day. Cuesta Park, Mountain View. This is for families with at least one girl, age 7-10. It’s a follow-up to the "Girls’ Group" sponsored by FAIR but is open to all families. Please RSVP so that we can expect you. Michelle_poling@hp.com  We’ll meet near the new playground. Bring a picnic if you like and park toys.

Directions:
1. Take Highway 101 or 280 to Highway 85.
2. From Highway 85, take EL CAMINO REAL exit towards Mountain View (west on El Camino)
3. Turn Left on GRANT ROAD
4. Turn Right on CUESTA DR and then look for the parking lot entrance to
Cuesta Park on your left

Mon. May 6. 7:30-9:30pm. Coastside FAIR. Half Moon Bay Area support group. RSVP by the previous Friday if coming!

Mon. May 13. 7-9pm. Parents of Young Children Support and Networking Group. Mountain View. This group is just for adoptive parents of infants and young children. Pre-adopt parents may also find this group helpful. Thanks to BAAS for the meeting space! 465 Fairchild Dr. Ste 215. RSVP lansing@fairfamilies.org 

Wed. May 15. 7:00pm. East Bay FAIR Adoptive Parents Group Oakland. Please confirm date. Call Susan sjhoffmann@hotmail.com for directions and to RSVP.

Thurs. May 16. 6:30-8:30. Belmont Adoption Education Group. Presented by FAIR for San Mateo County. Topic: My Child’s Behavior: What’s Adoption, What’s Not? All FAIR parents welcome. Dinner and child care with RSVP to Eva Lanphere. 650-595-7623. Program starts at 7:00. 400 Harbor Blvd. Bldg. B., Belmont. Questions? Call Nancy 650-856-MICK or nancycng@yahoo.com 

Tues. May 21. 7:30pm. Parent Support Group. San Jose area. RSVP louise@rainbow-family.org or to confirm meeting date and place.

Fri. May 24. Callers needed to reserve camp sites at Del Valle for the August 16-18 campout. If you are available at 8:00-8:30am to call and use your credit card to reserve a site, please contact Elsje Gurko at DEJAfamily@aol.com right away. She will give you detailed instructions. FAIR will reimburse you within a week for the charge on your credit card. This year we need 12 callers. You need not be planning to go camping to help out here! Thanks.

Mon. May 27 7-9pm. Parents of Elementary Aged Kids (7-10/11) Support and Networking Group. Join others to share ages, stages, challenges, and parenting tips. BAAS office: 465 Fairchild Dr. Ste 215, Mountain View. Please RSVP to check on the date, since this is Memorial Day. We may change to Tuesday evening this month. Lansing lansing@fairfamilies.org 

Wed. May 29. 7:00pm. Parent Support Group. Palo Alto. For adoptive parents of older children, teens and up. Parents of young kids, see other dates. Before coming RSVP Lansing lansing@fairfamilies.org  Also for pre-adoptive parents of older kids.

FYI: Upcoming Events Save the dates!

Kids Writing, Drawings, Poems, Photos needed for the next issue of News from FAIR. Contact editor Nancy Ng for details. 650-856-MICK or Nancycng@yahoo.com 

Fri-Sun. August 16-18.  FAIR Annual Campout at Del Valle Regional Park in Livermore. Details later. FAIR will reserve campsites.


April, 2002

Mon. April 1. 7:30-9:30pm. Coastside FAIR. Half Moon Bay Area support group. RSVP by the previous Friday if coming!

Sun. April 6. 2-5pm. Informal Meeting to work on Lifebooks. Contact Maria at martinmccrae@earthlink.net or Laurel MissCress@aol.com  to RSVP.

Mon. April 15. 7-9pm. Parents of Young Children Support and Networking Group. Mountain View. This group is just for adoptive parents of infants and young children. Pre-adopt parents may also find this group helpful. Thanks to BAAS for the meeting space! 465 Fairchild Dr. Ste 215. RSVP Lansing lansing@fairfamilies.org  Please note change to the third Monday just this month.

Thurs. April 18. 6:30-8:30. Belmont Adoption Education Group. Presented by FAIR for San Mateo County. Topics will reflect the interests of the group. All FAIR parents welcome. Dinner and child care with RSVP to Eva Lanphere. 650-595-7623. Program starts at 7:00. Questions? Nancy 650-856 MICK. 400 Harbor Blvd. Bldg. B., Belmont.

Tues. April 16. 7:30pm. Parent Support Group. San Jose area. RSVP louise@rainbow-family.org  to confirm meeting date and place.

Wed. April 17. 7:00pm. East Bay FAIR Adoptive Parents Group Oakland. Please confirm date. contact Susan sjhoffmann@hotmail.com for directions and to RSVP.

Wed. April 24. 7:30pm. Parent Support Group. Palo Alto. For adoptive parents of older children, teens and up. Parents of young kids, see other dates. Before coming RSVP Lansing lansing@fairfamilies.org  Also for pre-adoptive parents of older kids.

Sat. April 27. 10am-1pm. Family Play Day/Potluck. Meet other families with young children. The Parents of Young Children Support and Networking Group is hosting a simple potluck play day at the Parents Nursery School in Palo Alto, 2328 Louis Rd. (Between Embarcadero and Oregon Expressway) This is a wonderful enclosed facility with indoor and outdoor play areas. All families with young children (5/6 and under) and those waiting to adopt are invited.

What to bring: A finger food to share. For information, contact Wilma wilmachu@aol.com 

Mon. April 29. 7-9pm. Parents of Elementary Aged Kids (7-10/11) Support and Networking Group. Join others to share ages, stages, challenges, and parenting tips. BAAS office: 465 Fairchild Dr. Ste 215, Mountain View. Please RSVP if interested in this new monthly group, even if this date is not good for you. Contact Lansing or lansing@fairfamilies.org 

FYI: Upcoming Events Save the dates!

Kids Writing, Drawings, Poems, Photos needed for the next issue of News from FAIR. Contact editor Nancy Ng for details. 650-856-MICK or Nancycng@yahoo.com 

Fri-Sun. August 16-18.FAIR Annual Campout at Del Valle Regional Park in Livermore. Details later. FAIR will reserve campsites.


March, 2002

FAIR FAMILY FUN 
 FAIR ON ICE 
EVERYONE IS INVITED

Saturday, MARCH 16, 5:30-7:30pm

What: The last FAIR on ICE party of the season will take place at the Winter Lodge in Palo Alto. Join other FAIR families for a wonderful evening at this cozy outdoor rink. FAIR has exclusive use of the ice and the barbecue/picnic area. Non-skaters are welcome to watch, encourage, and chat. Please invite extended family members and friends. Waiting parents are welcome. Teens are encouraged to come. Strollers and wheelchairs glide beautifully on the ice, so bring the little ones! There is a covered area in case of rain. Our goal is 75 skaters. See you there!

When: Saturday, March 16, 5:30-7:30pm. Two hours goes quickly! Come early.

Where: Winter Lodge, 3009 Middlefield Rd., Palo Alto
From 101, take the Oregon Expswy exit then left onto Middlefield.
From 280 take the Page Mill exit. This becomes Oregon. Turn right onto Middlefield.
Just past the Arco station on your left turn into the Winter Lodge parking lot.

What to bring: A simple dinner for your family: hamburgers, hot dogs, etc. Gas barbecues and picnic tables will be ready. (There is a Safeway with a deli and a Round Table almost next to the rink.) FAIR will provide hot chocolate, cookies, cups, plates, utensils, mustard, catsup, and relish. No alcohol, please.

What to expect: Fun, good company, a great time. This is one of our most popular events, definitely worth a drive. Since FAIR has the whole rink, it will be a relaxed, comfortable evening for all.

Cost: $9.00 per skater, collected at the door. This includes skate rental; those with skates must also pay $9:00. No RSVP necessary. Just come!!! Questions? Call Lansing 650-328-6832. Lansing@fairfamilies.org 

Sun. Mar.3. 3-6pm. Informal Meeting to work on Lifebooks. Contact Maria at martinmccrae@earthlink.net  to confirm the date, to reserve your space and for directions.

Mon. Mar. 4. 7:30-9:30pm. Coastside FAIR. Half Moon Bay Area support group. RSVP to FAIR.

Saturday, Mar. 9. 9-4pm. Pact, an Adoption Alliance presents “Myths vs. Reality in Adoption.” Speakers are nationally known adoption professionals and authors: Ken Watson, David Brodzinski, and Annett Baran. FAIR is a co-sponsor. Oakland, The Scottish Rite Center, 1547 Lakeside Drive. Call Pact at 510-243-9460 to register.

Sun. Mar. 10. 2-5pm. San Jose Area. Place TBA. (We will call you with directions) FAIR will present a Lifebook Workshop, designed to help parents begin to put together the story of their child’s adoption journey. Parents with children of any age are welcome.

Presentation, discussion, optional hands-on opportunities. Individual situations will be addressed.

Workshop leaders: Janina Nadaner, a therapist and developmental expert with much adoption related experience, and Nancy Ng, adoptive parent, trainer and counselor. Wilma Chu, adoptive parent and “scrap-booking consultant” will offer tips on preservation, presentation and materials.

To hold your place send $20 per family with the ages of your children and when they arrived to FAIR by March 5. Space is limited. Please include a phone number. RSVP to Nancy 650-856-MICK.

Mon. Mar. 11. 7-9pm. Parents of Young Children Support and Networking Group. Mountain View. This group is just for adoptive parents of infants and young children. Pre-adopt parents may also find this group helpful. Thanks to BAAS for the meeting space! 465 Fairchild Dr. Ste 215. RSVP Lansing lansing@fairfamilies.org 

Thurs. Mar. 21. 6:30-8:30. Belmont Adoption Education Group. Presented by FAIR for San Mateo County. All parents welcome. Dinner and child care with RSVP to Eva Lanphere. 650-595-7623. Video and discussion. Questions? Nancy 650-856MICK. 400 Harbor Blvd. Bldg. B.

Tues. Mar. 19. 7:30pm. Parent Support Group. San Jose area. RSVP louise@rainbow-family.org or 408-729-6708 to confirm meeting date and place.

Wed. Mar. 20. 7:00pm. East Bay FAIR Adoptive Parents Group Oakland. Please confirm date. Call Susan sjhoffmann@.hotmail.com  for directions and to RSVP.

Mon. Mar. 25. 7-9pm. Parents of Elementary Aged Kids (7-10/11) Group. Probable meeting place: Mountain View. Please RSVP if interested in this new monthly group, even if this date is not good for you. Lansing lansing@fairfamilies.org 

Wed. Mar. 27. 7:30pm. Parent Support Group. Palo Alto. For adoptive parents of older children, teens and up. Parents of young kids, see Mar.11 above. Before coming RSVP Lansing lansing@fairfamilies.org  Also for pre-adoptive parents of older kids.

FYI: Upcoming Events Save the dates!

Kids Writing, Drawings, Poems, Photos needed for the next issue of News from FAIR. Contact editor Nancy Ng for details. 650-856-MICK or Nancycng@yahoo.com 

Sat. April 27. 10am-1pm. Family Play Day/Potluck. Meet other families with young children. The Parents of Young Children Support and Networking Group is hosting a simple potluck play day at the Parents Nursery School in Palo Alto. This is a wonderful enclosed facility with indoor and outdoor play areas. All families with young children (5/6 and under) and those waiting to adopt are invited. Please save the date and watch for more details next month.

Fri-Sun. August 16-18. FAIR Annual Campout at Del Valle. Details later. FAIR will reserve camp sites


February, 2002

You are Invited! It’s the Year of the Horse!

FAIR’s LUNAR NEW YEAR CELEBRATION

Sunday, February 10, 2002, 2-6pm

Los Altos Community Center
1 North San Antonio Road
Los Altos, CA

2:00: CRAFTS-GAMES-ACTIVITIES for the whole family
4:30:
Traditional New Year Feast – for everyone
Lion Dancers
Drawing for Prizes

RSVP: Nancy at 650-856-MICK or Nancycng@yahoo.com 
Let us know how many children and adults.
$5/person(5 and up) or $20/family at the door

Ethnic Dress Encouraged – Volunteers Needed.

Directions: To the Los Altos Youth Center (click here for map)

From 280, take El Monte exit East to Foothill Expswy. Take Foothill Expswy North to San Antonio Rd. Take San Antonio Rd East to the entrance of the Los Altos Youth Center/Police Department. The entrance is on the South side of the street (to your right) a couple of blocks East of Foothill Expressway.

From 101, take San Antonio Road exit and follow West to the entrance of the Los Altos Youth Center/Police Dept on your left.

Sun. Feb.3. 2-5pm. Informal Meeting to work on Lifebooks. Contact Maria at martinmccrae@earthlink.net  to confirm the date, to reserve your space and for directions.

Mon. Feb. 4. 7:30-9:30pm. Coastside FAIR. Half Moon Bay Area support group. RSVP through FAIR.

Tues. Feb. 5. Documentary: Transracial Adoption: Outside Looking In. An award winning documentary by Phil Bertelsen will be shown at 11pm on KQED. For more information: http://www.bigmouthproductions.com  or http://www.itvs.org 

Sun. Feb. 10. FAIR’s Annual Lunar New Year Party. See above. Map is on the web site. Go to www.fairfamilies.org  and click on calendar. Volunteers needed, teens and adults.

Mon. Feb. 11. 7-9pm. Parents of Young Children Support and Networking Group. Mountain View. This group is just for adoptive parents of infants and young children. Pre-adopt parents may also find this group helpful. Thanks to BAAS for the meeting space! 465 Fairchild Dr. Ste 215. RSVP Lansing lansing@fairfamilies.org 

Wed. Feb. 20. 7:00pm. East Bay FAIR Adoptive Parents Group Oakland. Please confirm date. Contact Susan sjhoffmann@hotmail.com  for directions and to RSVP.

Tues. Feb. 19. 7:30pm. Parent Dinner Support Group. San Jose area. This month the group will meet for dinner at Fresh Choice at the Great Mall in Milpitas. Join Louise for food, fellowship, and conversation. RSVP to louise@rainbow-family.org  by Feb. 18th.

Wed. Feb. 27. 7:30pm. Parent Support Group. Palo Alto. For adoptive parents of older children, teens and up. Parents of young kids, see Feb.11 above. Before coming RSVP Lansing lansing@fairfamilies.org  Also for pre-adoptive parents of older kids.

 

FYI: Upcoming Events Save the dates!

Kids Writing, Drawings, Poems, Photos needed for the next issue of News from FAIR. Contact editor Nancy Ng for details. 650-856-MICK or Nancycng@yahoo.com

Saturday, Mar. 9. 9-4pm. Pact, an Adoption Alliance presents “Myths vs. Reality in Adoption.” Speakers are nationally known adoption professionals and authors: Ken Watson, David Brodzinski, and Annett Baran. FAIR is a co-sponsor. Oakland, The Scottish Rite Center, 1547 Lakeside Drive. Call Pact at 510-243-9460 to register. Save by registering before 2/25/02.

Sunday, Mar. 10. 2-5pm. San Jose Area. Place TBA. FAIR will present a Lifebook Workshop, designed to help parents begin to put together the story of their child’s adoption journey. Parents with children of any age are welcome.

Learn how to tell your child’s story through a life story book: wording, what to include and why, ways to present the information in an age-appropriate, honest way. Presentation, discussion, optional hands-on opportunities. Individual situations will be addressed. Bring your photos, momentos, letters, or any relevant information. There will be materials available to purchase if you need them to get started. Drinks and snacks provided or bring your own.

Workshop leaders: Janina Nadaner, a therapist and developmental expert with much adoption related experience, and Nancy Ng, adoptive parent, trainer and counselor. There will also be a “scrap-booking consultant” who will offer tips on preservation, presentation and materials.

To hold your place send $20 per family with the ages of your children and when they arrived to FAIR by March 1. Space is limited. Please include a phone number. Questions? Call Lansing 650-328-6832. Lansing@fairfamilies.org  orNo child care is available) RSVP to Nancy 650-856-MICK.

Saturday, Mar. 16, 5:30-7:30pm. FAIR on Ice Party for all families. Palo Alto. Also, FAIR’s annual meeting and Board Elections. For info about serving on FAIR’s Board, call Lansing. The Board meets 4 times per year to plan for FAIR.


January 2002

You are cordially invited to a

Lunar New Year Celebration

on Sunday, February 10, 2002 from 2-6 pm
Los Altos Youth Center
1 N. San Antonio Road, Los Altos

Ethnic Games, Crafts and Entertainment
Lunar New Year Feast 4:30 pm
Music, Fun for All Ages

$20/family or $5/person (all inclusive)
RSVP: 650-494-3057 or nancyng@yahoo.com 

All familes welcome
Special invitation to families with children from Korea, Thailand, Cambodia and Vietnam

Directions

From 280, take El Monte exit East to Foothill Expswy.  Take Foothill Expswy North to San Antonio Rd.  Take San Antonio Road East to the entrance of the Los Altos Youth Center/Police Department.  The entrance is on the South side of the street (to your right) a couple of blocks East of Foothill Expressway.
From 101, take San Antonio Road exit and follow West to the entrance of
the Los Altos Youth Center/Police Dept on your left.

Sun. Jan.? 2-5pm. Informal Gathering on the peninsula to work on Lifebooks. Contact Maria at martinmccrae@earthlink.net to confirm the date, to reserve your space and for directions.

Sat. January 5. Resolve’s Annual Adoption Conference, Journey of the Heart. Holy Names College, Oakland. A day of workshops especially for pre-adoptive and adoptive parents. For information: 415-788-3002 or 788-6772.

Mon. Jan. 7. 7:30-9:30pm. Coastside FAIR. Half Moon Bay Area support group. Share your story, your current challenge, or your latest success. RSVP Roxanne 650-560-9016 or Judith 650-726-2823.

Sun. Jan. 13, 2-4pm. FAIR Board of Directors Meeting. Wood home. RSVP lansingw@earthlink.net

Mon. Jan. 14. 7-9pm. Parents of Young Children Support and Networking Group. Mountain View. This group is just for adoptive parents of infants and young children. Pre-adopt parents may also find this group helpful. Thanks to BAAS for the meeting space! 465 Fairchild Dr. Ste 215. RSVP Lansing. lansing@fairfamilies.org

Wed. Jan. 16 7:00pm. East Bay FAIR Adoptive Parents Group Oakland. The date has not been firmly set. Contact Susan sjhoffmann@hotmail.com for directions and to RSVP. Childcare may be available.

Tues. Jan. 18. 7pm. Parent Support Group. San Jose. This group is facilitated by Louise, FAIR Board Member and experienced adoptive parent. All FAIR members are most welcome to attend. Location: Alum Rock Covenant Church at 218 Kirk Ave., San Jose. The cross street is McKee Ave. RSVP to louise@rainbow-family.org Ask about childcare.

Wed. Jan. 23 7:30pm. Parent Support Group. Palo Alto. For adoptive parents of older school aged children, teens and up. Parents of young kids, see Dec. 10 above. Before coming RSVP Lansing at lansing@fairfamilies.org Pre-adopt parents of older and special needs kids are also welcome.

FYI: Upcoming Events

Coming in January: FAIR is planning another series of parent/child groups, Understanding our Stories. If you are interested in this popular group experience, facilitated by therapists, experienced parents, and adult adoptees, call Nancy at 650-856-6425 or nancycng@yahoo.com The group will meet on 6 weekday evenings from 6:30-8:30pm. Children should be from 8-10.

Also in January/February: FAIR will present a Lifebook Workshop, designed to help parents begin to put together the story of their child’s adoption journey. Maria will keep a list of interested people. Contact: martinmccrae@earthlink.net 

Sunday, February 10. FAIR Lunar New Year Party. Los Altos. For all families. Details to come.

Saturday, March 9. 9-4pm. Pact, an Adoption Alliance presents "Myths vs. Reality in Adoption." Speakers are nationally known adoption professionals and authors: Ken Watson, David Brodzinski, and Annett Baran. FAIR is a co-sponsor, along with many other agencies and support groups. Oakland, Sthe Scottish Rite Center, 1547 Lakeside Drive. FAIR has registration brochures or call Pact at 510-243-9460 to register. Save by registering before 2/25/02.

Saturday, March 16, 5:30-7:30pm. FAIR on Ice Party. Palo Alto. Also, FAIR’s annual meeting and Board Elections. If you would like to serve on FAIR’s Board, call Lansing or any Board member for information. Board members meet 4 times per year, including the annual meeting, and plan FAIR’s programs.


Link to Calendar 2001

Link to Calendar 2000